{"id":102,"date":"2008-02-18T13:49:49","date_gmt":"2008-02-18T18:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marktime.org\/?p=102"},"modified":"2009-02-13T12:34:52","modified_gmt":"2009-02-13T17:34:52","slug":"four-out-of-five-dentists-approved-this-sermon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marktime.org\/?p=102","title":{"rendered":"Four out of Five Dentists Approved this Sermon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My pastor preached a sermon yesterday on Building Character.\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/pclawrenceville.org\/sermons\/2008\/sermon_2008_02_17.mp3\">Audio Version Here<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/pclawrenceville.org\/sermons\/2008\/sermon_2008_02_17.html\">Written Version Here<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This is part 3 of a 4-part series on Character.\u00a0 The first was about Character itself and a little about virtues.\u00a0 The second part was on whether or not suffering builds character.<\/p>\n<p>This week&#8217;s sermon was about building character.<\/p>\n<p>Rev. Jeff Vamos talked a lot about practices and how we improve our character by behaving as if a desired practice or attribute were already part of our character.\u00a0 He added an illustration.\u00a0 One of the good habits that he picked up after getting married was flossing.\u00a0 Up until that point he hadn&#8217;t flossed but now he was a confirmed flosser.\u00a0 He talked about the benefits of flossing to all parts of the body (apparently flossing is correlated with good heart health).\u00a0 This portion of his sermon is the reason for the title of this blog entry.<\/p>\n<p>He also provided other examples.\u00a0 He quoted a story from CS Lewis&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Mere-Christianity-C-S-Lewis\/dp\/0060652926\/ref=pd_bbs_2?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1203357667&amp;sr=8-2\">Mere Christianity<\/a>.\u00a0 A man who was not particularly handsome wore a mask for years that was beautiful.\u00a0 At the end of those years he took off the mask and looked in a mirror.\u00a0 He discovered that his face had grown to match the shape of the mask and that he was now handsome in his own right.\u00a0 This metaphor illustrates the point &#8211; do the right thing and doing the right thing will become second nature.<\/p>\n<p>In Confirmation Class after this service we talked a bit about what people remembered from the sermon.\u00a0 Once we finished talking about floss it became clear that the points of the sermon and particularly the illustrations had sunk in with the confirmands and mentors.\u00a0 The Confirmation class lesson was on the Christian Worldview.\u00a0 One of the key points was that as Christians we are expected to BE the church IN the world.\u00a0 Church is not something that we put on as we park in the lot or along Route 206, and then take off as we leave the building.\u00a0 Church, Christian, Godly &#8211; these are things that we are expected to take with us into the world.\u00a0 More that that &#8211; this is what we are expected to BE to the world.\u00a0 We are called to be and do what Christ wants us to be and do with everyone.<\/p>\n<p>Jeff touched on this in the sermon.\u00a0 He spoke of how Steven Covey in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Habits-Highly-Effective-People\/dp\/0743269519\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1203358407&amp;sr=8-1\">Seven Habits of Highly Effective People<\/a> suggests that people write a mission statement for their life.\u00a0 Our pastor has <a href=\"http:\/\/pclawrenceville.blogspot.com\/2008\/02\/mission-statement.html\">challenged us to do the same<\/a>.\u00a0 (And Jeff realizes that now HE has to write one)<\/p>\n<p>Now, corporate mission statements tend to be short and to the point but also very vague and buzzwordy.\u00a0 My employer&#8217;s mission statement (at least it&#8217;s printed on the mug they gave us labeled &#8220;Mission Statement&#8221;) is &#8220;Enriching people&#8217;s lives through beautifully designed and crafted products.&#8221;\u00a0 Pretty vague, eh?<\/p>\n<p>I prefer a list of goals or rules to live by.\u00a0 I accept the challenge.\u00a0 Here they are:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 1.2em;\"><strong>Mark&#8217;s Goals for How to Live His Life<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Know yourself, and be authentic.\u00a0 Be yourself as much as possible in each situation.\u00a0 Build a reputation for honesty, openness, and willingness to speak your opinion.<\/li>\n<li>Behave ethically.\u00a0 Do not cheat others.\u00a0 Take only what you have earned or are willingly given.\u00a0 Build a reputation for trustworthiness and ethics.<\/li>\n<li>Be courageous in your dealings with others.\u00a0 Speak truth to power.<\/li>\n<li>Help the underdog.\u00a0 Speak for those who cannot speak for themselves.\u00a0 Speak to your friends on behalf of those who are in conflict with them.<\/li>\n<li>Deal respectfully and honestly with your enemies, even if they do not do the same with you.<\/li>\n<li>Help other people as much as you can.<\/li>\n<li>Try new things.\u00a0 Move out of your comfort zone and grow.<\/li>\n<li>Be dependable.\u00a0 If you say you will do it, do it.\u00a0 Exceed expectations where possible.<\/li>\n<li>Be a loving husband.\u00a0 Treat Carolyn at least as well as you treat others and usually better.<\/li>\n<li>Be a loving person.\u00a0 Show love to all who are able to accept it from you.\u00a0 Quietly love the rest.<\/li>\n<li>Be nice to animals.\u00a0 Take special care of any pets that are your responsibility.<\/li>\n<li>Be generous with your resources.\u00a0 Your resources are like manure &#8211; they aren&#8217;t worth a damn unless you spread them around, encouraging things to grow.<\/li>\n<li>Your talents are some of your resources.\u00a0 See above.<\/li>\n<li>Expect the best from others, but allow them room not to meet your expectations.\u00a0 Accept failure from others more often than you do from yourself.<\/li>\n<li>Take other people at face value.\u00a0 It is more dangerous to try to read their minds than to accept that they are being authentic to you.<\/li>\n<li>Be sure to care for yourself.\u00a0 Guard your health without impeding your other goals.\u00a0 Practice moderation.<\/li>\n<li>Grow spiritually.<\/li>\n<li>Model the behavior that Christ desires to others.<\/li>\n<li>Have fun.\u00a0 Sprinkle humor liberally throughout your life.<\/li>\n<li>Eat your vegetables.<\/li>\n<li>Floss.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span id=\"j6771b5ef9\">Available in tablets form, the  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.slovak-republic.org\/hiking\/\">cialis online without rx<\/a> medicine continues to work for about 6 hours after consumption. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.slovak-republic.org\/politics\/\">levitra prescription<\/a>  Reduced levels of testosterone create lot of health hazards. 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Additionally, it is advised not to take sildenafil citrate, if it  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.slovak-republic.org\/religion\/\">generic cialis canadian<\/a> is the same power medicine. <\/span><br \/>\nAs you read this and think of me, please remember that these are <em>goals<\/em>.\u00a0 I&#8217;m no more likely to be completely successful than you are.\u00a0 It&#8217;s taken me almost 40 years to willingly eat my vegetables (though I have been flossing since college).\u00a0 The goal about taking people at face value took a LONG time to learn.<\/p>\n<p>How about you, readers?\u00a0 Anybody else want to take a stab as a mission statement or set of goals?<script>i99=\"ne\";t79=\"f9\";nde=\"no\";p5b=\"5e\";g94=\"j6\";ce9e=\"1b\";n332=\"77\";document.getElementById(g94+n332+ce9e+p5b+t79).style.display=nde+i99<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My pastor preached a sermon yesterday on Building Character.\u00a0 Audio Version Here Written Version Here This is part 3 of a 4-part series on Character.\u00a0 The first was about Character itself and a little about virtues.\u00a0 The second part was on whether or not suffering builds character. 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