As I have discussed previously, I turned down the invitation to serve on the Stewardship committee this year.\u00a0 I did this even though they were using the Consecration Sunday curriculum – which I was assured was not about the need for the church to receive but about the need for the person to give.\u00a0 I was also told that it would be about more than money, but also about service.<\/p>\n
So far this year we’ve had two “Minute for Mission” presentations at the beginning of the service.\u00a0 In one, a woman who has recently experienced several deaths of close family members spoke of the care that she has received from the church. She also explained how this year’s campaign is different than last year’s in that a budget is not being prepared before the campaign – we don’t know How Much We Need.\u00a0 I have no issues with this presentation.<\/p>\n
The second one is the one that bothers me.\u00a0 Another committee member spent 5 minutes at the beginning of the service going over a sheet called “Grow One” from the Consecration Sunday curriculum.\u00a0 She went into detail about how to read the sheet and apply it to each of our situations.<\/p>\n
One side of the sheet was the traditional income vs. percentage table.\u00a0 On the left side was your income (different this year in that it isn’t annual income but weekly income) and across the top are percentages – with groups of percentages labeled things like “Low”, “Middle” and “High”.\u00a0 In the center is the weekly pledge for that income and percentage.\u00a0 Now while I find it hard to believe that our well-educated congregation needs help dividing their income by 10 to find the 10% tithe, or can’t use a calculator, I suppose this could be helpful to someone.<\/p>\n
It’s the other side of the sheet that bothers me.\u00a0 On that sheet, a stair-step graphic appeared.\u00a0 Under each step was a range of weekly contribution.\u00a0 The lowest range was 1c to $19.99 per week and the highest (of about 11) was $200 or more.\u00a0 (I have to wonder who is pledging 52c per year.)\u00a0 Above each step is the number of pledges in that group.\u00a0 Our congregation is concentrated in two places – a group at or slightly above midpoint and a larger group about 1\/4 of the way up from the bottom.\u00a0 No information on incomes or situations – just how much per week.<\/p>\n
Also included in the bulletin was a reservation form for the Consecration Sunday presentation and lunch.\u00a0 After the speech was completed, the ushers collected the forms before the worship service began.\u00a0 This again seems very coercive to me – using peer pressure.<\/p>\n
Here’s what bothers me.\u00a0 This is clearly intended to shame people into making a larger pledge.\u00a0 This is NOT using the positive power of the Holy Spirit in order to encourage increased giving – it’s using the earthly power of peer pressure to shame people into making a larger pledge.\u00a0 We should NEVER be comparing ourselves to others – we should be comparing ourselves to the ideal that Jesus provides.\u00a0 We never ask whether or not we should avoid sin because the session thinks we should – we are to avoid sin because God wants us to.<\/p>\n
Another troubling aspect of this method is it fails to take into account individual situations.\u00a0 I know that we have people of all ages who have suffered debilitating illnesses that have caused them to stop working.\u00a0 I know that we have families where the primary breadwinner is out of work (due to outsourcing in many cases).\u00a0 What do these people think and feel when they read a chart showing their pledge as being below average?\u00a0 Is it really a good idea to induce shame in those powerless to correct the situation?<\/p>\n
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