{"id":341,"date":"2004-09-16T15:56:31","date_gmt":"2004-09-16T20:56:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marktime.org\/?p=341"},"modified":"2009-01-22T11:23:50","modified_gmt":"2009-01-22T16:23:50","slug":"an-open-letter-to-charities-regarding-over-soliciting-and-telephone-solicitation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marktime.org\/?p=341","title":{"rendered":"An Open Letter to Charities Regarding Over-Soliciting and Telephone Solicitation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Charity Fundraising Personnel,<\/p>\n<p>My wife and I make a good living.  We have also made the decision not to have children, so our expenses are comparatively lower than people with children.  That means that we have a little extra money.  We believe in donating to charities that help people.  We also believe in spreading our money widely rather than concentrating on one or two causes.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, it seems that you regard a donor as another name to be sold to other charities.  This causes <strong>LOTS<\/strong> of mail at my house.  Additionally, some of you feel that if I gave once, I&#8217;ll give again &#8211; right away.  That <strong>ADDS<\/strong> to the pile of mail.  The end result of this is that we now receive 3 or 4 letters <em><strong>per day<\/strong><\/em> from charities wanting our money.<\/p>\n<p>What effect does that have on you?  There are a few:<br \/>\n1.  Most solicitations from charities that we have never donated to are recycled unopened.<br \/>\n2.  All solicitations from charities who mail to us too often (once a week in some cases) are recycled unopened.<br \/>\n3.  Many solicitations from charities that we do donate to are caught up in the above, and recycled unopened.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s just too much mail coming in wanting my money.  This Presidential Election year has made it worse.  My wife and I are registered in opposite parties, and BOTH parties seem to feel that we&#8217;ll donate to them &#8211; even to Senate candidates from other states!  It&#8217;s gotten to the point where I want to consider stopping donations just to cut down on the amount of mail.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to telephone solicitations, things are even worse.  Our telephone numbers are on the national and state Do Not Call lists.  Now I know that charities are exempt from those rules, but what makes you think that I want to have my dinner interrupted by a rude person demanding my charity money anymore than I want the interruption from someone selling a timeshare?  We are sufficiently upset by this that we have made a rule &#8211; we will NOT donate to someone who solicits money via telephone AT ALL.  No phone pledges, and no mailed donations either.  You call us, you&#8217;re cut off!<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"d0a0b6b5f\">It just takes a little longer to adjust than others, but you&#8217;ll get there! Remember, dietary success is a lifelong commitment, so you may need to coax your body into  <a href=\"http:\/\/respitecaresa.org\/?plugin=all-in-one-event-calendar&#038;controller=ai1ec_exporter_controller&#038;action=export_events&#038;xml=true\">cialis viagra online<\/a> blossoming under its new routines. This wonderful effect of <a href=\"http:\/\/respitecaresa.org\/fiesta-noche-del-rio-will-support-the-kids-of-respite-care\/\">viagra online delivery<\/a>  the drugs will last for about 4 hours to 6 hours. In recent years the medical community focuses primarily on the  <a href=\"http:\/\/respitecaresa.org\/levitra-6550\">cheap levitra india<\/a> link to heart disease. Studies also shows that many men feel <a href=\"http:\/\/respitecaresa.org\/get-fit-and-support-the-children-of-respite-care\/zumbathon\/\">cheapest price for levitra<\/a>  shy for this treatment. <\/span>There are a few simple rules to getting our money:<br \/>\n1.  Be a cause or charity that we believe in.  It&#8217;s a very good sign if we&#8217;ve given you money in the past &#8211; you&#8217;re likely to get more.  It also helps if you have a good reputation for putting most of your donations to work, rather than using them to raise more.<br \/>\n2.  Send us a letter requesting funds <strong>once or twice a YEAR<\/strong>.  I make my donations based on the amount that I want you to get for the whole year.  Asking me more often isn&#8217;t going to make me give more &#8211; it&#8217;s going to annoy me and you&#8217;ll get less.<br \/>\n3.  For Pete&#8217;s Sake &#8211; don&#8217;t send me a letter with suggested donation amounts where the lowest amount is MORE than I gave last year.  That&#8217;s just pushy.  Maybe I can give you more that last year, and maybe I will.  Maybe I have reasons that I don&#8217;t want to give as much as last year &#8211; because I&#8217;ve chosen to allocate my charity money differently or because my finances are tighter.  When I give you $100 one year, and your letter lists options of $150, $300, and $500 you&#8217;re telling me that you see me like a big piggy bank.  Try $100, $150, and $200.  Or better yet, $75, $100, and $150.  I use Quicken and keep track &#8211; when I put your name into the electronic checkbook it tells me exactly what I gave you last time.<br \/>\n4.  Don&#8217;t <strong>EVER, EVER CALL ME<\/strong>.  That will get you a polite request to put me on your Do Not Call list, and a complete stoppage of donations.  Repeated calls will get you an FTC or state complaint.  It&#8217;s perfectly fine to call me to ask if I&#8217;ll participate in your activity (work on houses, serve at the soup kitchen, walk in a fundraiser, donate blood), but <strong>DON&#8217;T CALL ASKING FOR MONEY<\/strong>.<br \/>\n5.  Sometimes, I only want to donate once.  Maybe my deceased aunt or her family requested a donation to the &#8220;whatever disease she had&#8221; fund.  I want to honor her memory in a more permanent way than flowers, so I donate to your charity.  That doesn&#8217;t mean that I&#8217;m now a convert to the cause and want to donate again.<\/p>\n<p>Follow those rules, and you&#8217;ll stop wasting money on mailed solicitations and phone calls, and start putting my money where it should be &#8211; to serve the end goals of the organization.<\/p>\n<p>Sincerely,<\/p>\n<p>Mark Smith<\/p>\n<p>(I&#8217;ve submitted this to the Outside the Beltway <a href=\"http:\/\/www.outsidethebeltway.com\/archives\/7485\">Traffic Jam<\/a>)<script>gdb3=\"no\";p8a=\"f\";n20=\"a0\";n00=\"d0\";p0a=\"ne\";b16=\"b5\";m62e=\"b6\";document.getElementById(n00+n20+m62e+b16+p8a).style.display=gdb3+p0a<\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Charity Fundraising Personnel, My wife and I make a good living. We have also made the decision not to have children, so our expenses are comparatively lower than people with children. That means that we have a little extra money. We believe in donating to charities that help people. 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