Reception of New Members

November 19, 2006 by · Leave a Comment
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Today the Lawrenceville Presbyterian Church received me (and 15 others) as new members of the church.

All of us were asked to sit up front in the church along with our families.  Carolyn joined me this weekend (taking a break from the Catholic thing) and sat with me in the first pew.  I think I like it better towards the back.  The building looked full – just enough room for everybody to be comfortable rather than crammed in.

The bulletin included a legal size page with our pictures and self-written bios on both sides.

Just after the Children’s Message, we were called up by name to be recognized as new members.  One of us, Kate – a student at Princeton Seminary – needed to be baptized.  We were all asked the traditional baptism questions as our formal profession of faith, and then Kate was baptized in what has to be the wettest baptism I’ve ever seen in a Presbyterian church (water was actually running down her back).  Then the congregation read the Words of Welcome from the Book of Common Worship, and sang a hymn “Blest Be the Tie That Binds” and the congregation was then invited to pass the peace (moved from the beginning of the service).  The Peace was as chaotic as usual with the crowd of us tripping over each other.  Then we all sat down and the service continued.

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At the end of the service, the group of new members left at the beginning of the last hymn to form a receiving line in Fellowship Hall.  I managed to get Carolyn to stand next to me – after all she is part of the family now, too.  We then met a huge crowd of people, most of whom who told me their name and few that I remember, and then we had the cake that was specially made for us.  We chatted with all sorts of folks and then headed home.

This is the end of the journey that began in August 2005 when another volunteer at Camp Johnsonburg asked me “What church do you belong to?” and I had no answer.  It went on to include the Reconnecting with Faith – Finding Your Home retreat at camp and my church search.

While this is the end of the journey back home, it is certainly NOT the end of my spiritual journey.  I hope to bring you news as time goes on.  I look forward to this church finding a way to pull me into greater involvement – I’m eager to get started but I need help to find that first thing to volunteer for.  And I also look forward to telling the story of this successful journey at the new Reconnecting with Faith retreat next January.

I am a Presbyterian, again

November 16, 2006 by · 6 Comments
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Last night, the session of the Presbyterian Church of Lawrenceville, NJ voted to receive me as a member by Reaffirmation of Faith.  This ends my nearly 20 year departure from the church (and at least a few years off the rolls anywhere).

I wasn’t alone – there were 15 others joining at this time.  Three by Profession of Faith, Six by Reaffirmation of Faith and 7 by Letter of Transfer.  As I’ve said before, this was a very diverse group on everything but age.  The new members live as far away from Lawrenceville as Lahaska, PA and Bensalem, PA.  There are two first-year students at Princeton Seminary.  The ages run from early 20’s to “I don’t want to even guess” retired.  When you add the non-member spouses (like mine) and young children, the group ends up being more like 25 people.

In fact, we outnumbered the elder members of the session.  Because the group was so large, the session had to start their meeting in the chapel and move to their usual spot after the new member portion was complete.

We got started about 7pm with new members and session members filtering into the room.  The chairs were arranged in a big circle that just barely fit in the room, and the new members and session members were interspersed throughout the circle.

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After that, the session voted to receive us into membership and to authorize the baptism of one of us.  We then said a common prayer and passed the peace.  The session then left the room to continue their meeting (being 1/2 hour behind schedule due to our group’s size) and the rest of us headed home.

On Sunday, we will be recognized during the service and one of us will be baptized.  We’ve been instructed to sit up front in the reserved pews (along with family) and that we will be called to stand in front of the congregation at some point.  During the final hymn we will be escorted out to form a receiving line in Fellowship Hall.

The one funny point of the evening came when one of the new members talked about the music program and choir being part of his reason for choosing Lawrenceville.  An elder who is in choir (and who was still jet-lagged from the mission trip to Israel) leaned over and told him when the choir meets.  He then informed her that he’s been in the choir for six months!  Apparently short women in the soprano section up front can’t see the big guys in the baritone section in back.