Young Adult – not anymore
Next week, I have a birthday. This birthday ends in a zero, and puts me at the upper limit of what the PC(USA) denomination considers a “young adult”.
(Note – this is not a call for well wishes or gifts. However, my e-mail address is in the column on the left if you are so inclined. 🙂 )
Carolyn and I are in a strange spot. We are childless by choice, and at that age where most of our friends are having children (or in some cases have children as old as teenagers). We don’t quite fit in the world of folks “our age”, because we aren’t sharing the same experiences.
At the same time, we’re not finding that we have a ton in common with the folks who are behind us in years but also childless. These are the true young adults – the not-yet-married, the under-40-not-gonna-get-married, and the married-without-children. Don’t get me wrong – I love my friends in this group. It’s just that I feel a little different from them. Carolyn and I have been married for over 13 years at this point – most of the young adult friends that I have aren’t married at all and those that are haven’t been married quite so long.
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I think I’ve crossed the line. I don’t feel like a young adult anymore. If we’d had children I’d probably have crossed the line at least 5 years ago. I now find myself saying and doing things that my parents used to do – I catch myself saying “Shoot. I sound like my parents”.
Each person crosses this line in their own time. I know folks over 40 who are still young adults at heart. I know folks under 30 who are no longer young adults. I just get this feeling that some time in the last 5 years, I crossed the line without noticing. I’m noticing now because there will shortly be a zero in my age.
And it’s just as it should be.
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4 Comments on Young Adult – not anymore
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Alan on
Tue, 8th Jul 2008 4:11 pm
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MB on
Tue, 8th Jul 2008 5:41 pm
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Dawn on
Thu, 10th Jul 2008 2:43 am
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stcasserole on
Thu, 10th Jul 2008 3:17 pm
Bette Davis was right, “Getting old ain’t for sissies.”
Welcome to adulthood! 🙂
So you’re 50 right? Cause you have to be older than I am! 😉
MB
Mark,
Happy early birthday! Welcome to the decade we will soon share! (please forgive me if I’m wrong, I’m guessing.
Dawn
Being an “adult” is much more interesting than being a “young adult”.
Happy Birthday to you and many more.
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